What is Consummation of Marriage in Islam?
Obligations
There are various obligations and rights related to the consummation of marriage in Islam. First of all, the consummation of marriage is not permitted before a woman has given birth. If the woman does not consent to the consummation of her marriage, then the marriage is invalid and can be annulled. It is also forbidden to commit adultery, even if it is not done for money or material gain.
The husband is also required to pay the wife a dower, which may range from a token sum to a substantial amount of wealth. The dower serves as her property, which she receives in exchange for marriage. She also receives the gift of milk al-bud’, a type of marriage contract, which is a necessary requirement for lawful intercourse.
Rituals
In Islam, the consummation of marriage is a public ceremony. Both the bride and groom are required to attend the ceremony. A legal guardian should be present to protect the woman’s rights and modesty. A ceremony should not be too elaborate or extravagant; a simple meal and a few drinks are sufficient.
Marriages in Islam are conducted with the consent of both parties, and two reliable Muslim witnesses are necessary. Marriages should never be forced. In fact, the Prophet Muhammad himself gave a woman the right to end her marriage when she complained that it was being forced upon her. The Prophet Muhammad also said that a woman who is previously married cannot be married off without her consent. Likewise, a virgin must give her consent before being married.
Importance
According to traditional Islamic law, the consummation of marriage is an essential element in the formation of a family. It forms an enduring bond between two people and is the basis of social equity. Marriage also promotes comfort and security. In addition, it provides financial stability and provides an important foundation for children.
In Islam, marriage is considered ‘completion’ when the marriage partners have sexual intercourse. In the English language, the word ‘consummation’ also refers to sexual intercourse. A sexual act between a man and a woman is the ‘consummation’ of a marriage.
Requirements
A marriage in Islam must be consummated with both parties’ willing consent. It must also be witnessed by two trustworthy Muslims. Unlike in other religions, Islam does not allow forced marriage. Indeed, the Prophet Muhammad once allowed a woman to cancel her wedding after she complained about being forced to marry. The Prophet also stated that a previously married woman cannot be married off without her consent. In addition, virgins must give their consent before they marry.
The man should treat the bride gently. He should put his hand on her head and perform du’a. The bride should then be given some time to rest after the wedding. The woman can then enjoy her new freedom by playing the daff, a drum similar to a tambourine, but without the rattles. The husband must also perform the walimah, the ceremony of killing one sheep for the guests. This act has been prescribed by the Prophet Muhammad to ‘Abd al-Rahman ibn ‘Awf.
Divorce before consummation
Divorce before consummation in Islam is considered to be a grave sin and should not be practiced. It is a sign of poor judgment and a breach of the sanctity of marriage. The divorced person should not speak bad about his or her wife or do anything to hurt them. It is important to remember that Allah knows our thoughts and intentions.
The first step in divorce is to consult the Islamic law. The Quran permits divorces after a marriage contract is entered into, but before it is consummated. The divorced spouse must first visit a muslim cleric, who will decide the division of the dowry, alimony and other issues. However, this is not the only time that a couple can separate. A second and third divorce does not take place if the marriage is not consummated or in privacy.
Sunna divorce
According to Islam, divorce is permitted in the Sunna system if the divorced spouse has not commenced sexual intercourse with another individual within three months. This period is known as the ‘idda’ or purity period. A man can divorce his wife without her knowledge by pronouncing the divorce word ‘Tlq’.
When it comes to a woman who wants to divorce her husband, she must wait until the end of her monthly menstrual cycles before she can marry a new man. This is considered an example of an immature woman. If she is not menstruating, she must wait until after giving birth. A woman can’t even go out to dress or be beautiful during this period. However, there are exceptions to this rule.